Jul 22 2010

Truth Cannot Take Away the Pain

Category: Breaking Up: Immediately There is No Winneradmin @ 2:08 pm

During a breakup, even if both parties wish to soften the blow…the truth of the matter is still GOING TO HURT!  ‘Nuff said!

Jul 22 2010

Deliverer and Receiver Get Punched in The Gut…

Category: Breaking Up: Immediately There is No Winneradmin @ 2:02 pm

If the deliverer has any type of heart (especially if the receiver is a good person), they will take it just as hard as the receiver.  However, there’s no pain like that which comes with a love that did not work.  But, you can bet the receiver is going to have to bear the brunt especially when you factor in, the element of rejection.  Meanwhile, the deliverer is confused about what to say to the receiver.  On one hand, if you say that they are a very positive person along with other compliments, that could potentially make their pain worse.  “If I’m such a good person, why are you dumping me?”  Then on the other hand, you don’t want to sound cold either.  So it is practically a no win situation for either party…at this juncture.  But faith and time can eventually make both parties a winner.

Jul 22 2010

I Just Wanted to See How You’d Respond

Category: 5 Phrases that Cause Relationship Blackoutadmin @ 1:50 pm

The subject statement is enough to get any lover riled up!  It’s already  bad enough to test your mate; but doggone, then you “tell” them you’re testing them.  Wow.  That, in some cases, would be enough to drive a sober person back to drinking.  Regardless of the tone of the conversation, seeing how someone would respond and then acknowledging the fact that they’ve been tested makes the recipient feel as if they’re being toyed with or are in the middle of a game.  If this type of behavior is exhibited on a routine basis, your lover will more than likely be worn out…and then “want” out.

Jul 22 2010

#10 of 10: Even if He’s in Shorts, He Still Wears the Pants

Category: 10 Things Both Sexes Wish Women Knew About Menadmin @ 12:48 pm

Ladies, you’ve got to  make him feel like the man of the house.  Even if you make $350,000 a year and he makes a measly $350 a year…at the end of the day, you’ve got to support him in wearing “the pants” around the house.  Because if he does not feel like he is holding it down, there are plenty of arguments sure to ensue.

Jul 22 2010

#9 of 10: As a Woman Hurts, a Man Hurts…

Category: 10 Things Both Sexes Wish Women Knew About Menadmin @ 12:39 pm

Okay Ladies,  just because you may have a “desire” to see a man hurt (in an effort for him to illustrate his feelings and emotions when going through something), if he does NOT show you that he is hurt…it does NOT mean that he is not hurting.  Remember, men and women emotionally are wired differently.  Do not assume that he is not releasing emotions properly just because he may not be carrying it out in a manner that would be fitting for “you.”

Jul 22 2010

#8 of 10: If A Man Entertains her Every Conversation

Category: 10 Things Both Sexes Wish Women Knew About Menadmin @ 12:27 pm

If he entertains your “every” conversation request ladies, that means you are DATING and he’s seriously trying to get to know you better.  Let’s face it…once you’re in there, the conversation is bound to change.

Jul 22 2010

#7 of 10 Things: When He Speaks to You…

Category: 10 Things Both Sexes Wish Women Knew About Menadmin @ 12:24 pm

Ladies, during the early dating stages, if a man is speaking to you and it sounds like “wonk, wonk, wonk” (he’s saying something to you that doesn’t make much sense), that means he likes you.  Just another innocent thing to go with the lovey dovey phase.  Bear in mind, as couples settle down with one another, the tone of their communication “could” more than likely change.  So enjoy the “wonk, wonk, wonk.”